Write him back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Thank you for taking this question. I am so confused.
I am 30 and met a man 19 years my senior (divorced after 16 years, with 3 kids) on my way to on an international hiking trip on the airplane. He was with a friend. I was by myself. We had great chemistry, and flirted, and we traded contact information. It was one of the first times I had a wonderful conversation with a mature, but very active man. I e-mailed him after returning to follow up on a networking contact he provided to me, and asked him about his trip. He responded with a nice message, and offered his number again, along with a question about my trip. I later returned his message, and and let him know that I was going to be in town on a particular date. He responded with his networking contact for me to contact, and asked: coffee and conversation?. I responded again, and let him know when I would be available. He did not respond.
I understand that if he doesn't email or call, he's just not that into me, but I am sure why he didn't get back to me when he offered to get together. Did I do something wrong? Plus, I am getting ready to call his friend/client, and I know this person will get back to him, and I am very concerned about what he will think. Do you think he has just forgotten about me? Or just thinks I am too young? Or did I say something wrong in my email?
Email him and say that you're afraid that you missed an email from him. Remind him that you would love to go out for coffee and the date/time.
It's possible that you did miss an email, and even if not this gives him another opportunity to make the date with you.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com