Guy wants two girls

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The guy with the called. He said I was trying to be greedy. I told him I wanted to be the only girlfriend if I dated because I deserve it. He said he could not leave Bridget because if he was with me then he would not just throw me away. I fhe is with someone then he is with htem. But I am perplexed why is he still calling me and flirting. Is this realtionship healthy or going to last. what do you think? He then saids he wants his cake and eat it to. Although he know he can't.
I think he got jealous. I told him about my fdate when he asked. Only then he said he slept last weekend then sai d,Oh, yeah Brdiget cam up. HSe did not ride horses but my friend and i did then we went out. He said he spent time with family and friends. Isaid great. The he said Brisget and I hav ethe same birthday, no wonder he like sme.
He also said I am throwing him away after he startred liking me. He said He wanted me to be happy even if it is not with him because I deserve it. He then said he thinks I am charismatic witty, bright , and would go out of my way to make the person I am seeing feel special. He said he is approached often but I am the type he really is attracted to. What does alll this mean? Advice
To me it seems he wants to have two girlfriends at the same time. You only want him to have one girlfriend.

So, one of you two are going to have to make a change. You need to let him know which it is going to be. Either he picks you or the other.

This might not be easy on either of you, but that's what you want.

Good luck,

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