How to interact with girls
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Im a 18 year old guy with a serious problem, im shy as hell. Ive also never had a real girlfriend. Im being told im pretty good looking guy by friends. Im also fit so i feel fairly confident with my looks but I still cant imagine how any girl could ever like me for who i am.
Ive "dated" twice with two different girls in last year but never managed to gather enough courage to do something. Both seemed excited when i asked them out. One even gave some hints (i think) like telling me shes cold and such. She also stopped me before we parted so she could hug me. Anyway, my problem is how the hell do you do these things...? Dont want to lose this girl as a friend and im afraid i will if i tell her right out how i feel. How should i approach her about this?
Girls are people just like you. Many are very shy like you.
You went out with two girls this year and it sounds like the dates went well. You would make yourself happier if you would just tell the girl what is on your mind and ask them what is on their mind.
If you are shy just tell them that... they already know it, in fact so it won't come as a surprise. They will help you out of your shyness if you let them know when you are feeling it.
Learn to talk about different things you have in common: school, friends, teachers, sports, families, music... the list is endless. Also talk about things that you are specifically interested in such as nature, collecting, a particular sport. If you have to, make a list of things to talk about and memorize it so you have something to talk about.
If you are wondering how to hug or kiss a girl, remember that they usually want to do it too. Either just do it (like the girl hugged you) or talk about it with them.
Don't try to overcomplicate life... you only get once go around, so live it up and enjoy. It is better to have tried and failed than to have never tried at all. Be BRAVE!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com