He kissed another girl, but broke up with me when a guy kissed me
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I NEED HIM! Theres this guy i like soo much, we were seeing each other, and we went to a party together, with all my friends and his friends, because we are all good friends, Well there was a guy, and he kissed me, and I didnt kiss him back, but The guy i was seeing got mad at me, and broke off the seeing each other thing, but the thing i dont get is, that he kised another girl a couple weeks ago, and i didnt break it off.. Should i be the one to break it off? but i cant.. i really like him a lot, andi want him back, I need him. he makes me happy.. I called him and asked him if he will talk to me tomorrow, but i dont knwo exactly what to say to him.. PLEASE HELP! What should i do, or say?
It sounds like this ex of yours is a bit on the jealous and immature side. He's thinking it's fine for him to go around kissing others but you can't?? What kind of a mentality is that?
I would definitely sit down and talk to him. Rule 1 in relationships is you don't just run off when you hit a trouble situation. You talk it through. Believe me, there are far worse things in relationships that people deal with than someone kissing you. So it's time he take a deep breath and learn how to deal with real life relationship issues. Second, he was kissing another girl!! So either he thinks it is OK or not OK. If he doesn't think it's OK, he better walk the walk instead of just talking the talk. If he DOES think it's OK then he has no right to throw a snit because you let a guy kiss you.
-- from Jenn
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