Trying the cold shoulder
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i am running out of ways to try and get my ex back. i love him so much but i have found that flirting with him isnt doing anything. so i have asked some people about playing hard to get and if i should try the so called "ignoring" him. what is your opinion on this? will distance between us, like less hanging out and less phone calls make him miss me or is this a lost cause? i need alot of help im sick of crying myself to sleep. Thanks!
Giving him the cold shoulder might work, but then again it could make things worse. If you have reached the end of your rope, maybe it is the next thing to try.
The best approach, always, however, is to try to become good friends with him and work to build a strong relationship that might blossom into what you really want.
My advice is to be his friend, but if you feel you have already done that, then my advice is to give him the cold shoulder.
-- from George
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