Give her some help
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for about 2 months now, and we have had normal couple fights, and also i've had some jealousy issues in the past, but i have brought it up to her and we've talked about it. However recently, i don't know why i'm feeling that she doesn't really like me. She says she loves me, but she doesn't really show it, we do hold hands and kiss like any other couples, but i feel something is missing. When i ask her, she says that she just doesn't show that she likes me, even though she really does.
Everytime we're out with the class(we're in the same class), i feel as though she treats me like i'm invisible. She hangs out with the rest of the class, and walks by me like i'm not there. I really want to be with her, but she doesn't get it, and whenever she talks to the other guys of the class, i start to feel jealous. What should i do?
Give her some help in what to do to make you feel attractive or in some other way to make your relationship work better. Maybe she wants more than just holding hands and kissing. Ask her if she would mind going a little bit further.
In classes you can take the initiative to make things go better. Say hi to her and walk over next to her or just hang out with her. She may just not know what to do. Show her by doing for her what you want done for yourself.
These little things could turn around the whole situation.
I hope they do!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com