he booked a holiday for us last week and we seemed so happy,he said hes going to take a mate
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
a few days ago my b/f of 2 years split up from me on text saying it wasnt working and the relationship got boring.ive told him to give me another chance and ill prove to him itl be fun but he wont,he booked a holiday for us last week and we seemed so happy,he said hes going to take a mate.when i asked if he still loved me he said i dont need to no that,does this meen he loves me or not,because when we were together he used to say it all the time he wont meet up and talk things through,im devastaed but he doesnt seem to be,what should i do ignore him or keep in contact hoping he will come back.he says he wants to be mates,please help.
Be happy that he still wants to be your friend.
That is the way most broken relationships get fixed. A good friendship gives you the opportunity to work on strengthening your relationship.
Think of what a relationship is about-- trust, honestly, caring, reliability, communications and I am sure you can add some more. Now take these attributes and build them up with him.
Over time, he may be likely to take you back into his heart.
I surely hope so!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com