There is this girl I like at school
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I am a 17 year old male. There is this girl I like at school. I have known her for about 2 years but have really started to like her in the past 3-4 months. I have a class with her and I drive her home, sometimes even spend time with her out of school.
Sometimes she seems to like me alot and sometimes she seems she will have nothing to do with me. Most of the time, she likes to be around me.
We have gone places together to movies and conventions but always with other people, never alone because she would feel uncomfortable.
She already knows I like her, I told her so. But her responce was that she already had boyfriend and wanted to be loyal. I am not sure exactly how close they are to each other but there is an 8 year age difference and he lives on the other side of the country, although they talk to each other every day.
I would really like to know how to win her over. I am kind of a shy person. She has had a couple of boyfriends in the past. I have not had any and don't know the first thing about relationships.
Let her know that you are there for her if things fall apart with her boyfriend.
Other than that, the way to have a good relationship is based on many elements: trust, honesty, communications, reliability, paying attention, caring, and others. Add love and you have not only a good relationship but a loving relationship.
So think of those aspects of a good relationship and work on them very hard with this girl. If it doesn't work with her, it is good practise for the future.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com