He gets a "maybe"
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
This is a follow up from my question the other day. So I told her how I felt and she didn't know what to say. I asked her if she needed more time and she said yes and that she wasn't looking to date at the time. It was wierd for just that night but then the next night she talked to me for a long time and I called her the next day before she left for home. We have spent a lot of time together. I am mostly used to girls telling me no, but this time its different, what do I do?
Just let things progress naturally. You are making good progress so far.
You may attract her more if you show your love by talking about things that stress the aspects of love. Some of these are: love itself, respect, physical attraction, honesty, trust, good communication, paying attention. Don't try to throw these ideas into one phone call... take your time.
You don't sound like you lack self-esteem, but for others these attributes of love need to be applied to themselves when we "talk to ourselves."
Hope this works out for you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com