Things have cooled down
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ok so i like this guy T*, he is a month younger than me, and we have gone out b4, and are now kinda dating, we he invited me to his house 4 times and held my hand each time. but he told my mom not to talk about me and him infront of his dad... recently he has kinda changed, (his grandpa died) should i hold off and waite for things to cool down, do i confort him, does he like me??
First of all, of course he likes you!
Since his grandfather died he is probably somewhat depressed and needs you to talk to about it (if he is willing). You should talk with him about all aspects of your relationship since communication is a vital ingredient to a good relationship.
Ask him why he doesn't want your mom to talk to his dad about you two. Ask him a lot of things and just by talking it should help him out of his bad feelings a little.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com