Wait until he drops his girlfriend
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I had a groupo project in one of my class. I met a guy there. I never talked to him, unless it was about the project. The next term I noticed he would stare at me. I had a dream about him. So I thought I would talk to him. He was a nice guy. The week of Valentines day I Instant messaged him. I asked how his Valentine's Day went. He immediately got sefensive. He later told me he thought his girlfriend asked me to call. He apologized. I accepted. He then started staring at me in class. Or Ijust started noticing. Now we talk on the phone for only a week so far. He keeps telling me things like I like you . You are cute. He said he would be dating me if he did not have a girlfriend. He relaionship seems bad. I am noticing ass we talk I like him. We have alot in common. He even noticed. I think he is in a dilemna. How should I proceed? It is hard it is obvious we would be in a better relationship them they are. Another thing he has a problem with commtment, but is thinking of commenting to me because I am a virgin and he is taken with me. What do you think of his intentions?
Continue being his friend but when he starts talking about the two of you say to him "too bad you are dating or we could spend some time together." This is not tempting him to cheat, but it does make him think about his current relationship.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com