Give it time

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ok I have been "hanging out" so he puts it with this guy for a little over a month now. We go out every weekend sometimes all weekend. We talk everyday sometimes two to three times so there is something there. I told him feelings started to form on my end and he really didn't say much and I didn't bring it up after. We have not slept together yet and I want to just not when we're not a couple . He says he doesn't want anything serious because he just moved here and we both want to do a lot of things before we think about settling down. But it would be nice to have a boyfriend and it already seems like we are. He says he doesn't want to mess around or get worked up because without a house (we both live with our parents)to finish the job there is no point. He also says he wants to meet other people because he is new so where exactly does that leave me? Advice
Give him the space he needs and the time to meet people.

Trying to force a relationship too much can only strain it. Keep in contact with him as a good friend or more so that when he is ready for more you will be there waiting.

Sounds like he isn't ready to commit to anything more that what you have right now. You want more. I think you will have to be patient.

Good luck,

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