Communicate with him
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi, there's this guy that I have been with for over two years. Lastnight he told me that he doesn't think I'm serious about a long lasting relationship with him. How do I prove to him that I am serious? I am in love with him and I know that he loves me too. We listen and support each other as well as share many things in common. I just need to erase any doubts that he has about me. How can I do that?
It takes more conversation than you have had so far. Have you discussed getting married and/or having kids? This is usually a good indicator of a serious relationship.
Ask him what he considers a serious relationship to be. What is lacking in your relationship? He should know the answers.
The only way to find out is to ask him and then have long meaningful conversations on the subject. That in itself is a sign of a serious relationship.
Hope this helps some!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com