She Thinks I'm a Player
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i like the same girl from two years. she knows that i like her but she thinks that i m a player.... i mean she thinks i m playing on her. i dont know what makes her to hate me. we were friends before but now she doesnt want be my friend aagain but i really want her back. we are not talking to each other from last 3 months. please what should i do before valentines day. shez only 16 and i m 17. we both study in same school. please tell me what should i do?
It sounds like something happened to make her have bad feelings about you. And it's up to you to make that step. Find a time you can catch her alone, and then tell her you miss talking to her. That's honest enough and a reasonable start. Ask her if you two can do something together - suggest a movie that you know she'll enjoy.
If she hesitates, remind her how much fun you guys used to have together. If she says yes, you have your opening to make things better. If she refuses, ask her what has happened to your friendship. As a friend, you deserve to know why she has altered her view of you. She has the responsibility to tell you what happened.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com