Have a talk with him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Well my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and 7 months , when i first met him he was the typical "player" and well i didnot care then he never called me , never went out or anything after a while i got tired so i broke up with him and went out with this other sweet guy , i guess my boyfriend got really hurt and asked me to give him another chance , so i did then he was like a twin brother , he treated as the most wonderful person in the world always called me and i know for sure that he loves me becuase of different situations but , lately , we are not together as often (well i dont have a car now) and he goes out with his friends a lot , when he never did that and everytime we argue he tells me "you think i am going to stay alone yeah right?" and so weird telephone calls but not in his phone his moms...nad he is always telling me that i have another person which is not true is, can you help meeeeeeeeeee is my boyfriend cheating??? how should i catch him?????
You don't know that he is cheating. All you really know is that he is acting obnoxiously toward you. Call him on this and have an honest talk about what is going on.
If he is mature enough to handle an open conversation without getting angry or out of control, perhaps you will find out what is on his mind.
Don't let him get away with accusing you of cheating since you know it isn't true. Ask him if he is seeing someone else or if he is tired of you. You might not like the answers, but it is better to ask than wonder.
-- from George
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