Talk to him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have had the hugest crush on this guy since 4th grade. I fially asked him out he said no he does not want a girlfriend right now but it's been about 3 months now and durring school he always stares at me and he will stick up for me and hold doors i love it my friends say I should talk to him but I try and he'll say hi and stuff but that's it not like he use to realy talk to me. I'm confused does he like or hate me I know he's not shy because he is always around other girls. help!!!!
Talk to him either in person, on the phone, or electronically. Find out how he feels about you. He certainly does not hate you because he does a lot of nice things for you. My advice is that you should believe what he told you. He had no reason to make that up.
Give it time, he may become available someday. Do that or find another guy.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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