Jealous over girlfriend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ive been with my girlfreind for about 2 1/2 years she is all i ever think about, when im haveing a bad day just seeing her smile makes me so happy but she decited a week ago that we needed to take a break to realize if we want to be with eachother and she dosent want to be with me if she is not gonna give 100% i know i want her to be my girlfriend i didnt need time so i just went along with it i told her i loved her and always would but i told her i wont wait forever this whole break was part of me being jeaous of her talking to boys that are always talking about getting on girls and her going to clubs i know she wont dance with another guy, but im a guy and im always around guys and there always talking bout getting one thing i dont care if she was to go hang out somewere else besides the club do u think that this time is really going to help us? and what should i do about the club issue i know if she felt uncomfurtalbe about me going somwere i would respect the way she felt but what should i do please help me
ps. sorry so this is so long i just need help bad thank you
You have accepted her decision to be apart for a while, so you will have to live with it until things change around and she comes back.
This is not an unusual thing to happen to couples and usually is a result of temporary boredness with the relationship.
Ask her out to something really special like dinner and a concert or something you know she will like. You need to keep yourself in her mind while you have this temporary break.
Hope everything goes well for you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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