How do I tell her how I feel
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i am 16 years old and i am trying to get with this girl i really like.i really want to get with her but i am really embarased to tell her how i feel. I never had a girlfriend before and i don't know how to react in front of her or how to tell her how i feel.
Things would be a lot easier if you were this girl's good friend. That is the best way to enter a deeper relationship with someone. So, one thing to do is to try to become her good friend and then go from there.
For the moment, you also have to deal with your shyness. Realize that everyone is shy to one degree or another... even this girl you are interested in. We all tend to think we are different in that respect, but we aren't.
Say hi to her and smile every chance you get. Use her name when you say hi because everyone likes to hear their own name mentioned. Once you feel comfortable talking with her and have the courage to tell her how you feel, say something like "I am developing feelings for you, Karen." Her reply should give you a clue. If you are in doubt tell her the same thing next day and this time she should have an answer ready for you.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com