How much time should bf/gf see each other?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi, i read through all the advice, but it never mentions how much time we should spend with our partners when we are officialy bf/gf. i am "going out" with this girl, and she was the one who asked me out, but now she never wants to hang out, it's always me who asks her to go somewhere. should she be spending all her time with me? or should i just let her hang out with her friends all the time? i feel like she is using me...i thought that couples spend every minute with eachother, but we only spend like 2 hours a week with eachother. is that enough? i don't feel like this relationship is working...i want to spend more time with her, but i dont want to sound desperate. i told her how i feel, she said she'd fix it, but nothing changed.
The amount of time varies from couple to couple depending on their life situations and personal preferences.
You will need to take the initiative to find ways to spend more time with her. I am sure you can think of lots of things to do together. Gradually increase the time until you find a midpoint where both of you can accept the amount of time you spend together. It won't be what you want or what she wants, but somewhere in between.
-- from George
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