He isn't talking any more
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have this friend who I've been friends with for a while now and I have the
biggest crush on him I like him a lot to the point where I go crazy when I'm not
with him, he knows I like him and he told me and his friends that he likes me too, and when I'm with
him, he acts like we're dating and when I first starting hanging out with him a
lot he would send me a text messages every day and even saying cute little stuff
like "night sexy" and stuff like that but now he never texts me and never calls
me or asks if I want to come over I haven't talked to him in a few days and that
was just because he was online and haven't seen him in over 3 weeks and it's
driving me crazy because I like him so much but I feel like he doesn't like me
at all. I cry myself to sleep almost every night because of that. Some people
tell me that he's just ignoring me because he likes me but that doesn't make any
sense, is there something I could do to get his attention again and get him to
like me again?
The only way to find out is to gently ask him if something is wrong and why hasn't he contacted you recently. Hopefully he will give you a meaningful answer, but if he doesn't don't be shy about asking him again a different way.
It is possible that he has started to get attached to you and doesn't know how to handle... so you need to help him by getting the communication going.
One reason you are crying is that you don't know what is going on. Finding out one way or the other will help you a lot.
Best of luck!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com