Give it another try
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and my ex have been broke up for nine months now. i still have the same feelings for him as i did when we were going out. the problem is how do I know if we should give the relatioship another try or not. the reason we broke up in the first place was we both let the little things matter and we were way too sensitive. We also rushed into the relationship. Now we are friends. We can talk to each other about anything and we still have sexual tension between us.I have dated three or four guys since we have been broke up and none of them i could talk to like i can talk to him. I have so much in common with him. Yet were diiferent. We understand each other and have so much fun together. How do I know if we should just stay friends or give it another try?
My advice is to give it another try. You have a good relationship based on friendship and that is a sign that you might work out well as a couple again.
You will need to figure out how to deal with the little things. Best way I know is to talk things over no matter how small it might be. Do it in a loving way and nobody will be hurt.
You and he should promise each other that if it doesn't work out again that you still will be friends.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com