He may not be mature right now
Visitor's Question from a unknown year old Female
I have a crush on this boy........I'm only eleven so I feel really stupid looking for advice, so here goes....I have a crush on this boy and I don't know what to do and I cry every night just thinking about him.....My friend K* knows and she makes fun of me in front of him. well it's more like she hides the actual "making fun of ME" and still manages to let me know she is. Well J*( the boy's name) notices too, and I can tell that he thinks Kellie is tesing him because I like him so if he likes me this would discourage him to ask me out. K* no longer does this (phew) because I told her what damage it did. Please tell me what to do because my "being able to tell" girl radar
(as my mom calls it)is off. can you help me? :( :( :( :(
Keep in mind that girls mature faster than boys do in the romance department. You can figure out a great plan to have a relationship but then find out that he is clueless and too young to know how to deal with a girl (as a girlfriend).
Having said that, my advice is to write him a note and either give it to him or put it in his locker. If you try to talk to him directly he will almost certainly not know how to react. If you are already good friends with him, give him a note. If you are not good friends, make a strong effort to become a good friend of his before you try giving him a note.
I wish you a lot of luck!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com