Give him the choice
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
This guy I know has really been flirting with me lately. Or at least I think he has been.:) He has been more touchy feely, serious eye contact. He raises his eyebrows and gives a big grin. Then over the weekend we were on a retreat together through our church and he was asking if I had my own room and i said yeah i did, room 211 and he said with a smile, "Ooo..just in case I wanna stop by?" I kinda laughed (i knew he was kidding around..sort of..) and said yeah sure! Then during our small church service he played the guitar and I was sitting in the congregation. I was looking away out the window and i felt someone looking at me. I looked up and he was playing and looking at me with a big smile, then looked away. Then later that night a little girl (I know her mom) asked me if I was B***'s girlfriend? I said no, but it wouldn't be bad. :) Anyways...I was wondering if these are clear signles that he is somewhat interested. I just worry because he gets quiet and shy when others are around and doesn't act as flirty. Can you help? What would be a sure fire flirting technique that would let him know i like him..a lot! HELP! I have to see him on Sunday morning or Monday!!!
Seems clear that he likes you. Either take the long route and become friends with him and get closer to him. Or, tell him that you are developing feelings for him and that you wonder how he feels about you. Don't worry about his shyness, that is not unusual.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com