He has crushes on other girls
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My ex-fiance and I broke up about 7 months ago after a three year relationship because he had feelings for another girl. We were getting ready to get married and everything seemed so right until he dropped that bomb on me. He didn't exactly cheat on me, but it didn't seem right to continue our relationship while he was feeling these things for another girl. Anyway, I can tell he still cares for me. He is very protective of me and still considers me as his best friend. I'm just not certain that he's still IN LOVE with me. Sometimes it seems as though he is, but i'm not sure. He still gives me that certain smile and he still likes to hug me and calls me cute...things like that. I've asked him, but his response is always "I don't know". Right now he has feelings for yet another girl. They are not dating but he seems very smitten... because he keeps developing these crushes on other girls, I just want to get over him and move on, but at the same time it hurts to think of completely letting go of the love we shared for so long because i'm still as in love with him as i was 7 months ago...I'm mainly concerned that if i "move on" He'll give up on me all together. My love for him is never going to fade no matter how happy i am with someone else, and i would take him back in a heart beat...I just feel so confused and uncertain about what direction to go in. can you help me?
Tell him you still love him and would like to date like before. If he keeps getting crushes on other girls, then you will have to move on.
-- from George
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