She's Going to California to Meet a Guy

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My girl is going to california to see this guy see claims that she has know for ever and went to school with. Being the jealous guy i am went to my History folder on my computer and got into her e-mail. i found a folder with the guys name and opened it up to find she saved alot of the mail between them. she says thier ar like brother and sister to each other and he calls her beautiful and baby and other pet names and they say i love you and that he cant wait to "INALLY MEET HER IN PERSON". i brought it up to her and she says there just really good friends but i found other stuff that makes me feel otherwise. what do i do? Advice
If she said she went to school with him, how come he says he can "Finally Meet Her"? She's known him forever but they never actually met? I'm all for girls having guy friends and visa versa, but if she's flying cross country to go spend a weekend with this guy and they are saying they love each other, that's a bit much.

Is there any reason you aren't going? If they are just friends, she should be MORE than happy to include you in this friendly meeting. That's what boyfriends/girlfriends do, share their friendships and have fun as a group. If she doesn't want you to go along, then she's not thinking of him as a friend.

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