Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I'm a 16 year old girl and im a really shy person when it comes to guys an relationships. im really worried because i have not yeT had a boyfriend and am nearly 17. When i first started secondary school nearly everyone was already experienced with kissing and things. there was no-one i liked at the time so it didnt bother me that i never knew anything. intill 2yrs ago i fell for this really amaizing guy who was like my dream an when he asked me out i took my chance and said yes.i was shy and wanted to take my time so he left me because i was to nervous to even kiss him. i dont no what is wrong with me? im not being up mysei felt so small infront of everyone my confidence left me completely and i became really depressed. im not really an unnatractive person i was really popular at school and always have people telling me im pretty and have a great figure.its just me as a person, im concious of myself and what people think. im a really chatty person and i love to socialise its just im worried theres something wrong. i no i am straight because ive never had feelings for girls before so its not that i just can seem to be confident.
Now things have changed in my life and i want to change too! my best friend told me 3months ago he was in love with me and at the time i felt nothing for him so just basicly told him how i felt an that i love him in a diffrent way and i wouldnt ever want to risk loosing our friendship. we are together nearly everyday an hes the nicest guy i no! hes stunning and has a gorgeous body. and on top of that hes never cheated on any of his girlfriends and is like the perfect fairytale boyfriend, hes so sweet and kind with a heart of gold! he always makes me happy and complements me which really helps build my confidence an make me feel special infront of other people. hes had chances with so many girl that are perfect but he insists he just wants me. Over the past month i have fallen for him like ive never liked anyone, i jus want to hold him an kiss him. i no he likes me but i cant tell him how i feel because im so scared. i think im in love with my best friend. when we are apart i miss him sooo much! today he told me ive been acting strange around him and asked me whats wrong. i dont no what to do im just so scared il loose everything. please can i have some advice im helpless. thankyou xxx with love emily x
You say you are too shy to try to make a romantic relationship with this guy. Now imagine that you don't say anything and he loses interest in you? You will be devastated for a long long time. It is time to be brave and say something, anything to him to let him know that you think you love him. Tell him you are very shy and he needs to take it a little bit slow with you. Don't fail to do this as soon as possible. This is your dream come true.
If you don't take this opportunity, when will you next chance be??
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com