Deep down she still loves him
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I am 21 years of age, as of the 5th November 2004 I had been with my 19 year old girlfriend 4 years. Everything was great, we both loved each other from about month 3, and never looked back. At the end of September 2004, she went to Nottingham Trent univercity. This was our toughest challenge yet, but she had been at boarding school for a year, so we thought we could get through it. By Christmas she cheated on me, only a snog. She came back to Norwich over the christmas break, and I took her back. When she went back to uni, she dumped me. We have split alot of times, but it has never been serious, this time it is. We were going to go on holiday this summer, but now shes going with her mates. I thought my life wwas with her, but i must have been wrong. She says she thinks she loves me, but she can't see me at the moment. I guess my question is; if i wait around, which i would do for as long as it takes, do you think she will come back? I love her so much, and life is nothing without her. I hate to sound big headed, but I know deep down that she still loves me.
The best you can do is remain good friends and see what develops. She may come back to you or not. Since you are convinced that she loves you, my advice is to work on the friendship and communication and hope for the best.
-- from George
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