Watching all the girls go by
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I am totally in love with my boyfriend but I am so insecure-I have noticed he makes it a point to make complete eye contact with every female. And it is really bad if it is a good looking one. I have never brought this up to him but at times I know he feels i'm annoyed-i just don't know if he knows why. Then there is his porn magazine he keeps in the bathroom drawer-there are no words only pics-I feel like I am not enough for him and he needs to look at airbrushed women with fake boobs for arousal-help Im going to go nuts.
It is very normal for guys to enjoy looking at porn magazines... so don't lose any sleep over it. As far as looking at women, this again is normal, but he shouldn't overdo it. For example, making full eye contact right in front of you is insensitive of him. You need to have a talk with him and say that you don't mind him looking at other women but to leave out the eye contact. If he cares for you at all he should be willing to compromise... as you will be doing too.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com