Pursue your heart's delight
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I'm turning 14 in April.It's been basicly 2 weeks at high school now on the first ady of school i met a gang of grade 11's (i'm in grade8).here's the thing, one of them really likes me so much,but i would rather prefure him as friend, his a real sweat guy he tries to talk to me as much as possible.The problem is i like his friend.Though his friend is like 6 ft tall,about a foot and a half taller than me.He's such a fun guy to hang out with.The other day i was sitting on the railing next to him at school, he put his harm a round me and played around with me pretending to push me off backwards and stuff,when had to go to class (to get ready for my concert)him and his 2 friends walked me to my class.And the one time i was on supervision for my one teacher so i had to go to his class and saw at ther corner of ny eye that he was looking at me.When ever he talks to me he actully looks into my eyes, even if we're not talking.my mom told me that i must be careful with boys at school that they,say that they your friend and end up doing things (Eg.Touching.)From what i know he doesn't look like that type, his actully a very good friend.But i hear that him and his friends are dicks when they not around girls, besides that boy that likes me.I feel so bad that i don't feel the same about the first guy, but i really like his friend.Do you think that this guy likes me and if we would ever go out even though his in grade 11 and that he is 1ft and a half taller than me.(by the way, i told his one friend that i like him and he said he was going to tell him.)
Stick with your feelings for the guy you like. The height and age difference shouldn't be much of a problem. The main problem is that he is likely to want more physical activity than you are ready for. And, there is a legal problem if you two had sex together (you are not old enough). Other than that, continue to pursue your heart's delight.
-- from George
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