Can he get his first love back?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My ex-girlfriend was actually my first REAL love. I was hers, so we both learned how to love together you could say. Both of us come from painful divorces and we understood each other deeply. I mean down to the bone deep. She is only a junior in highschool and since the break up i have laid off to give her time to grow up and explore "men" a little bit. I truly believe that we're soulmates. If you would ask her right now though, you would get another story. She won't talk to me and nor will she give me a chance to be her friend. Our break up was hard because i was severely depressed and had a lot of issues within myself. she also heard a rumor that i cheated on her, which isnt true. But of course, she wont believe that. She seems so angry at me and i honestly dont know why! how could she be angry with her first love? Also, is it right to want to be with your first love? Ive been in enough relationships to know that when i get married someday its going to be her, or someone a lot like her. but can first loves ever get back together and work things out? HELP!!
All things are possible when it comes to love. Keep trying to get her back if that is what you want to do. I have no idea why she is so angry, unless it is becausse, as you said, because she believes you cheated one her. Send her a letter (written) explaining how you feel and that you didn't cheat. Perhaps that might help. Roses and candy sometimes turn the tide too. She may need something like that to allow herself to get over her anger.
-- from George
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