Long honest talk needed
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I used to have a crush on this guy. During the summer we got real close. We were like best friends always on the phone. When school started again, we clicked even more. We became friends with benifits. I started to love him. We have never went out.but I want to. We've been friends with benfits for almost a year. I'm tired of that, i want to start a relationship with him. I told him i loved him before. Like 2 months later he said it back. But now, it stopped. We got into a big fight over the summer and didnt talk. Now we are friends again, with benefits. But I dont want that anymore. I want to rekindal what we had, and make it better, because I still love him so much! How do I tell him, with him really knowing that I'm so serious and mean it? Please help..
Since you are such close friends, you should be able to bring up your thoughts and feelings in conversation with him. In other words, have a long, honest conversation. Alone in a car is best but if you don't have a car then try to find some place where you can talk alone.
-- from George
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