Give him a call
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I am attracted to someone at work .He is a widower with children ( his wife died about 5 years ago). I occasionally see him in the hallway- there have been times when he has held eye contact with me for a very long time, swiveled his head when I've walked by, or leaned forward on a bench to get a better look at me. The problem? That's as far as it goes. It seems like he is interested- but that's it. He works in another department, and it is rare when I have a work-related situation where I would need to call him. I know he is not seeing anyone. Shall I just give up and move on?
The answer is simple enough if you are brave. Pick up the phone, call him up and ask him if he would like to have lunch together or go out for coffee or drinks. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com