First be her friend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I knew this girl in my class but I never realized how much I liked (loved) her until recently. I know she kinda likes someone else. I've flurted with her a little bit and I gave her a box of chocolates anonymously. I don't know if she likes me, but I know she knows I like her. Should I ask her out?
You'd probably have better luck talking with her as a friend first. That way she would know and trust you. Then you could ask her out.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com