Loosen up and talk about her emotions
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I find it hard for me to express my emotions or affections toward guys. Maybe its because I don't want to get my heart broken or expect to much. I feel that I'm just to complicating for a guy to understand.I've never had those long kissing moments because I fear my emotions and whether or not i'm a good kisser. I'm waiting for the guy to tell me he likes me..because its not me just to tell a guy I like them. It's always "I'm feeling you somewhat" type of thing I prefer staying. I don't want to open up because I feel that I'm just one of his ordainary girls that he gets.. he's the type of guy that most of the girls I know are attracted to. Thats why I choose to just be friends with him. I feel that he has so many other options than choosing me over other girls. How can I break lose out of this problem and show that I want to move to a serious relationship with my guy friend. I don't know how to loosen up and talk about my emotions.
Talking about your emotions is what a good relationship is all about. You should have honest, open discussions which will build trust in each other. Practice expressing your emotions with your girl friends or even your parents. This will improve your ability to talk to this guy openly. If you block your emotions, you may discover that this is a life-long habit. That is a grim thought. Nip it in the bud now when it is easier. Be brave and do it!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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