Finds his love shortly after she got married

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I have a co-worker who recently got married. She and I have become fast friends; we've discovered that we have a lot in common (and I mean, A LOT). I became attracted to her and decided to share my feelings with her before Thanksgiving. To my surprise she felt the same way. We have since consummated our relationship and have begun spending a lot of time together.

I have never felt so connected to someone before so I am wondering if what I am doing is going to end up biting me in the butt.

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The answer is something she has to do. She needs to go to a marriage counselor with her husband quick. The result may be that they break up in which case you are in a good situation (unless she does the same thing to you). The holidays are not the best time for her to reveal this, so wait until after Jan 1st for her to tell her husband. That is my advice.

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