Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I've recently made a friend at college who just happens to live about 10 minutes away from me back home. Anyway, we've gotten pretty close in the first semester, hanging out on weekends wathcing movies together, cuddling on the bed etc....the problem is she has a boyfriend from back home. I've done a couple nice things for her which she thinks are "really sweet", we talk all the time, she even tells me that she doesn't know how long her current relationship is going to last. She even said that she was about to call it all off but he surprised her with a visit. I don't know whether to keep pursuing this....I think it has been going good, but one of her freinds told a friend of mine that she didn't like me in that way. I don't get it..any advice you have would be great thanks.
The answer is pretty simple-- ask her what her feelings are about you and about her boyfriend. If she won't break up with her boyfriend, then stop your relationship with her as it is nothing but trouble. Keep being friends so that if she does decide to break up with him, you will be ready.
-- from George
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