Photos have to go
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Sometimes my boyfriend will tease me by mentioning ex girlfriend's names to make me jealous. It works. He laughs and will say obnoxious things about these women that I don't want to hear and I know are not true. I know he is not cheating on me, however, I still feel very insecure when he talk about these women in an intimate way. To make matters worse, the other day when he was teasing me he mentioned showing me a picture of one of the girls. A nude one! I don't mind if he has porn or whatever, but naked pictures of ex girlfriends really bothers me. When I told him this, he said it was okay for guys to have this. We live together and have been dating for over a year. Is this just insecurity, or do the photos need to go??
You are probably a little insecure, but in any case, the photos need to go. It is unloving behavior on your partner's part to keep them and tease you about them. Ask him in a loving way is you could have a photo destroying party. I hope he sees things your way.
My best wishes,
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com