Asking her out
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i've read through your site and think its great. but... i have a really good friend who I really do have feelings for , but dont know if she feels the same way. i want to ask her out but, what if she doesnt feel the same way and it ruins the friendship.please help me, i love her.
We have lots of tips on this subject, for "asking someone out" see: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/askout.asp
For "dating a friend" see: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/4
The key element is not to scare off your friend by blurting out "I love you"
You might pose a question like "do you think we will ever go out?" Your friend's reply will give you a clue whether to pursue it or not. Chances are that if you are really good friends she might feel the same about you.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com