Three girls and one boy
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I like this guy,and well the first time I met him was about 10 months ago.And at the moment I was going out with someone.But I still liked this one guy.I would only see him every Wednesday night.But I would talk to him some,and I started to like him.But I told no one because I did't want people to know.Then my friend told me that she liked him,but I was ok with it,I mean I was still in a relationship but it was off and on.Then me and my guy broke up,and well I was single.But my friend and the guy I like was getting close and he liked her,and well at one point they were going to go out.But it ended up they couldn't.So,then my friend decided she didn't like him,and by then I got really close to him.But then my friend couldn't decide if she over him or not.But then another friend of mine,told me that she liked this guy.So,again...I couldn't do anything.And well,my friend just asked him out but he said no.So,now they both have liked him,but couldn't go out with him.Which its been a few weeks now,but I think they both still like him.But now I'll go on about me...well I still like him through all of this stuff,and I sit with him at lunch at school.And well yesterday me and him and my ex boyfriend and all of these other people were sitting there,and we were talking about who I should go out with.And one of the guy I likes friends said I should go out with the guy I like.And well up till then I said no to all the people they has suggested but on him,I just sat there,I didn't say anything.And either did he.And well they mentioned htat like 3 times that day,and again we would just sit there.I really wanna go out with him,I know he likes me his brother has told me.But see the only problem I have is my friends.Cuz if they both still like him,I don't wanna screw things up with my friends.What should I do?Please help!!Soon!!!:)
Tell your friends you like him and if they have a problem with you dating him. Since they are your friends, they will support you in your effort.
All sounds good for a successful relationship with this guy so long as your friends have no problem. And, if they do have a problem, I would try to convince them that you really care for him and would be hurt if you didn't get a chance with him.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com