Too early to talk marriage
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
hey romance class, i want to know if this guy likes me or was it just a summer fling. He had an X-girlfriend he broke up with her when i met him like he was on his last nerve with her and like now he doesn't stand her at all , that even once when she called he kept hanging up the phone at her and telling her not to call again. I am scared that he started liking me to forget her but he tells me stuff like he was never intrested in someone like me. I realized when he kinda liked me when we were going to this place i was in the front seat with him and other people were sitting behinde us; i was sitting i found my hair on me so i jus took it and i extended it and saw how long it was and he was kinda paying attention to what i was doing , so he took that hair from me opened his cell phone cover folded it and put in there. Before that the day before iwas kinda upset he was like asking me whats wrong and stuff like that. he keeps telling me stuff like he wants to live with me forever and that he really likes me and stuff like i am the one that he was searching for all his life. He kissed me on my head,forehead, cheek and shoulders but at seperate times..what i want to know if its jus a summer thing or does he really like me or did he just want to get close to me, he even wanted to french kiss me he asked me but i said no..he respected that. He once cried cuz he felt that i didn't like him as much as he did to me i donno why i have a feeling that he doesn't really like me, and what is making me more sad is beacuse i am in a country now and he is in a country..please tell me ways to know if he was just playing or wanted me to feel sorry for him or does he really love me and wants marriage?
It is far too early to be talking marriage, you don't know him that well yet. Your question itself shows that you wonder about his intentions. Trust your instincts and let time reveal what is going to happen.
He sounds like a nice boyfriend to have, so enjoy his attention as long as you are having fun. Sorry things are confusing, but love often is.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com