Boyfriend moves out
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and for the past few months we've been having problems. I discovered that he was cheating on me. The problem is, this is with random women, never the same and it's just to use them. We're a kinky couple into BDSM and he does this with these women too. We were communicating and working things out and then he went on vacation for a week. We talked everyday and things were great, we were looking forward to seeing each other. Well, the day he gets back, I go to a wedding. I call him when i'm on my way home and he tells me that he's breaking up with me and that he's already moved his things out. This was 100% out of the blue and I don't understand. Now, he has a lot of problems, but I just want him back. What should i do?
Unfortunately, I have no answer that will really help you. It sounds like your ex has found someone new and is afraid to tell you. But, in any case, he has moved out and at the moment only he knows why. Maybe he contracted a disease? If you have contact with him, you should find out exactly why he left and if he might consider coming back.
You would also have better luck talking with a family therapist/counselor who could spend the time figuring this out with you.
I'm really sorry I can't be of more assistance.
-- from George
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