Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My boy friend and I have been together for 6 months now. We have always had fights about stupid things and we get over it in like 5 min.s. But latley we have been fighting alot about me and his friends. I like his friends, there funny, and i just have alot of fun hanging out with them. But he gets really jelous and gets mad at me for not paying attention to him and things like that. I dont know what to do, I feel like im getting bored with him too, like loosing some feelings for him.
What can I do to regain feelings for him? I want to be the best girl friend possible to him and I want to make him happy, whats your advice?
One thing that might help would be to spend a little more time with him alone. This will make him happy and that would probably make you feel better about him. Every time he gets jealous, reassure him that you love him very much and that he is more desirable than any of his friends. The problem is with him and the problem is jealousy.
Read our tips on jealousy so you can better understand what is motivating your boyfriend. The tips are at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682
Pay especial attention to the section about "My partner is too jealous."
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com