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Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I was in a 2 year relationship engaged, and fun loving but it was also abusive at times whenever we had a serious arguement. I broke it off and moved on. Met some who was in a 9 yr relationship and didnt work out for him, we met and got with each other and still with him. been with each other for almost a year but im not that happy. He smacked me once and I left him many times before because he was still seeing his ex girl, firting with girls, chatting and exchanging numbers on the net. I decided to leave the state, move away from everything. I live in a another state and my previously year ex come after me and left his family, friends and work because he made up his mind about me and wants to get married etc.... I'm having a change of heart of everything.... I still love my 2 year ex-fiancee and he wants me to come back and be with him forever. I dont know what to do..... I love them both. I am not interested being with anybody else and starting new with a totally completely different person. what should I do??




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Instead of two boyfriends, what you really owe to yourself is some time alone. This will hopefully give you a chance to decide for yourself what you really want.

Frankly, neither guy sounds like a winner and you deserve a winner in your life. I doubt that you want an abusive guy or a cheater. Give yourself some time to think over what you want your future to look like. Imagine yourself with one or other of the guys ten years down the road possibly with kids. Which one would you want to be your kid's father?

Tell both guys you need time to think... I'd suggest three months or so.

Best wishes,
George

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