Not enough time together
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 9 months and im so in love with her and shes also so in love with me
but im now in a community college and she has two years of high school left theres only 2 years of age between us, and we live only 5 mins away from each other, but we are starting to argue a lot just about time seeing each other, im very like uptight about not hanging out but this girl means the world to me, I just want to know how we can get through like the next two months without this arguing i want everything to work out, thank all of you
The answer to a problem like this is communication and compromise. You need to figure out how much time is "enough" for each other and then try to compromise to something you can both live with.
This problem may be a temporary one which comes up in relationships from time to time... that is, one or the other of a couple needs some space. When this happens, it only makes more trouble if the other person pushes and makes the other person feel overwhelmed.
So, my advise is to discuss it, compromise, and give the situation time to sort itself out.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com