We broke up, but he's still flirting
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I broke up with my ex about 9 months ago, it wasnt a long relationship but we were the same kind of people and we had so much fun around each other. I realized it was a huge mistake breaking up with him, and I fell in love with in after the break up. He would flirt with me the way he use to and tell me he missed me, and occasionally kiss me, and cuddle with me, and even call me (just like he use to when we were together.) Making it almost impossible for me to get over him.
I just want to know why he would do this? Even now 9 months later will do the same things to make me fall for him all over again. And I want to know if maybe he does this because he really does still like me to?
It does sound like he's still interested in you, if he's still flirting this much with you. It sounds like it's time for you two to sit down and really talk about what made you break up the first time around, and if you've both grown since then and learned more about each other. If you guys are still good friends after all of this, it might be worth getting closer again!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com