Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
hi..im a 16-yr-old female who has one of the biggest crushes on boy..i mean biggest and LONGEST...meaning ive liked this boy for 5 years... on and offf...my friends tell me i need to get over this guy and move on..but i cant. in the beginning of high school ..... we used to come to school together and he'd always be a gentlemen and sometimes in class..id see him looking over at me, but everything change when it was the second year of high school...me and him didnt even say hi to eachother anymore and that was reallY weird since the year before we were pretty close!!...and just the beginning of this this year i talked to him ONCE and just said hi. so wat im trying to ask is that ...should i tell him that im totaling crushing on him or NOT???.i know..its weaird that i havent told him by know..but its just that hes reaaly close with my cousin and im gonna start going to school with him this year ..and so i dont want him not to like me back because its gonna be REALLY REALLY hard having him around all the time..(and he is pretty popular at school which is gonna make it even harder)..and i dont want him to start thinking that the only reason i asked him for a ride is because i like him because its not..i askied him because hes my neighbor..I really dont know wat 2 do...im even starting to think i love him...i really need help.....PLEASE HELP!~
Since you have crush on him, he can probably sense it but not know for sure what it is. One thing you could do is to just come out and tell him. But a more normal approach is to make sure you are good friends with him and slowly let him know you care for him.
It's good you can ask him for a ride since that gives you time to talk and build a friendship.
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