Prank calls cause trouble
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
When i was in the 6th grade there was this 8th grade guy who rode my bus he was the most popular guy in 8th grade he always annoyed me by following me to my locker, staring at me and other crazy stuff. well at the end of the year i developed a huge crush on him and i think he knew but im not sure. Anyway the year ended and the bus route changed so he no longer rode my bus and he went to highschool. I saw him sometimes during my 7th grade year but i guess not enough cause i decided to prank call him and he found out they were alot of calls. Anyway he called me back and left this message on my answering machiene giving his name and telephone number it was something like if you would be interested in coming over sometime and watching tv or hanging out give me a call. Well i knew what he meant "the guy is smart" it was a test to see if id call back. My plan was not to but my mom made me to appologize so i did but he hung up before i had the chance. The next day i saw him and said im sorry he goes 'yea sure your sorry". That year ended and i was in 8th and he was in 10th i never saw him i called him once that was it and someother stuff that im not sure weather he knows about or not. Now im at his school he is in 11th and im in 9th I still love him and he we havent looked at eachother or spoke to eachother yet i pass him maybe 5 times a day in the halls. I think he still hates me but i dont know. And I wish i could take it all back. My question is how should i go about the situation without making things worse.i cant just get over him ive tried he is the most amazing guy ive ever met and i dont want him to hate me. Sorry this is so long but i wasnt sure how to word it.
I think it is unlikely that he hates you after all these years. Try saying hello to him when you pass in the hall and see how he responds. Unless he is rude, say hi everyday. If he is rude, which I don't think he will be, then you should just try to forget him and find someone else, as hard as that will be.
Best of luck,
-- from George
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