Boyfriend has two other children

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My boyfriend and I have been together for over six years. In the past I have heard rumors about him cheating on me which was true I have forgiven him but a few days ago I found out he has two kids one is five months and the other is four months. He had admitted it may be his kids because he had sex witht both of the girls without using condom but he mot sure because but girls use to run around.

I have told him it over between us but he wouldn't let me go he keep telling me I his world his pride and joy and that he can't live without me. He says if I really meant want I say about us not together he going to up on life completely. I don't want him to do that but I can't deal with him having two kids with two other girls is really hard and I don't know what to do.

What is the best way to deal with this problem so both of us can at least move on? He chose not the move on because of the problem which his face with daily with his family and the fact that his foot is damage and claim he need me in his life to go on. what so I do I desperately need some help and don't want to make the wrong decision which may cause someone their life. I am very soft hearted people and will suffice my happiness for someone else to be happy please give me some advice

RomanceClass.com Advice
I am so sorry about the trouble your boyfriend has caused you!

Your problem is way more that I can deal with on a bulletin board like this.

You need professional assistance immediately. That means a mental health clinic or whatever resource you have available to you. If you need to, ask your friends to tell you where you can go to get help. There is nothing wrong with you as a person, but you are in a situation which only a professional can help.

My very best wishes are with you!
George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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