We fight every day
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Me and my Boyfriend Love Each other VERY much but have been going on and off for about 5 months but now we have been doing fine and are in love even more. but the only problem is that we fight everyday about anything we can. I dont want to lose "D" but i am afraid that if we dont stop fighting then we could make our relationship worse. P.s PLZZZ dont give me any advice about how mabey we werent meant to be together or we should take some time off plzz. oh and also how do i convince "D" that he is the only one i will ever love and that he should stop worrying about boys looking at me..... I NEED HELP FAST.
If you were older or married, I advise you to go to a marriage counselor real fast. Fighting every day is not normal is most relationships. On the other hand, if you are still together after all this fighting, it may just be that you both like to fight and enjoy each other's company while fighting. If you want to stop fighting, then just stop. It won't be easy, since you have established this pattern of behavior. You have to be the one to stop arguing. When the urge to argue arises, say something like "I love you and don't want to argue."
Regarding his jealousy, all you can do is reassure him that you love him and that if other boys look at you they are showing they are jealous of him.
We have a great tip section on arguing, take at look at it at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23684
-- from George
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