Ex has forgotten about him, but he hasn't forgotten about her
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for, mabye, 8 or 9 months, and i'm positive that she's completely forgotten about me. My stupidity is the reason, because i didnt know how good i had it when we were together, to be able to just let myself go to someone like her, to tell her anything and not be ashamed or embarrased, she understood everything, and i loved her for everything she did for me, like listen. but then, we just became distant, and all the romance was gone, and we split up. Now, months later, i miss her more than ever, and she has this online diary thing that anybody can read, and she talks about this other guy that lives in another state that she loves, and its driving me nuts. I miss her so insanely, and its like i need her back, but i seriously dont have the time to call her, and with every moment that i dont talk to her, she goes out and parties and gets on other guys, and im going crazy. I really need her back. should i try to get back into her life again, or should i try to let go?? i hate this feeling.
I think you should forget about her and move on with your life. You say that you don't have time to call her. But, if you don't have time to call her, how will you have time for dating? I also sense that you have feelings of jealousy about this situation. Please read our tips on handle jealousy at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682
You will feel much better if you rid yourself of the feelings that are bothering you so much.
I wish you well,
-- from George
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